When refusal after refusal has left you needing therapy. You know you have survived much in life knowing what to do how to it. Following what those told you upon going to city colleges. If you find you are having trouble can't complete a class, drop the class. Never allow yourself to not take finals. But after giving emotional support to a daughter living with a full house for 3 weeks. Unable to return to my own surroundings, after figuring I was going to give support in a daughters time of need. A lost is a lost!